Self Control

Self control is vital for every human being.
and some human beings are vital for sself control
Fact.
no contest
Self control is life for an actor.
and the actor portrays self control
Truth.
that's the way it is.
Understand the lines in between. Nothing gets overseen, correct? Good, moving on.

Destination plays a nice chunk of self control. Have a good enough destination and determination will provide you with an excellent boost of self control.

I'm not a control freak, mind you haha. I'm actually more a negotiator/instigator. However the line is thin, that's true.
Yet no, I am simply amazed by the power of control, self control in particular.
It's how Dally stayed so damn charming.

Understanding that self control is not to be used heavily, meaning only with half-thought is already a valuable lesson to begin with.
learn to wink then blink twice
Don't center your mind on it, rather push it to the back where it sticks permanently. Realization will come once this is achieved, for most already do this since childhood.

However I see with some it is not so...how come? What makes a woman so terrified of heights she refuses to climb onto a roof?

It is not a roof. It just is. Do what you need to do with what you perceive.

Self control means doing things sometimes thoughtlessly. Now advanced self control means doing things without a thought. (*Which I, of course have achieved) twinkle and smile!

Why? silly...

Because you can have self control or master it. Umm like, you can play a part, or be a part.
oh it seems i confused that little head of mine....
So where does it come from? GOOD QUESTION!

Oh boy...logically, the brain. Illogically however, and ironically correct, is from a need or desire, though it would have to be a very strong desire indeed somewhat like the desire fat people have for devouring hamburgers at odd hours of the night.

Yes, you're right! That was a WRONG example!

Find the right one.